I like a good piece of chewing gum after a meal or after a cup of coffee as much as the next guy. I happen to be partial to Wrigley’s 5 Cobalt Peppermint gum. Great flavor that lasts forever.
Anyway, the recent packs of this delicious gum include a little game printed on the wrappers called “Truth or Dare: Choose a Stick, Take a Chance.” Sounds like fun, right? That is what I thought, too.
So, I was floored when I pulled out a fresh stick last night after dinner, and I got this “Truth” statement:
Really? Tell the truth: Would you rather go to the dentist or the principal’s office? We principals are being compared against dentists who stick needles into our gums, use power tools to drill down to the nerve endings, and yank out our molars? I certainly am not an anti-dentite; some of my good friends (and my brother-in-law) are dentists. But, is going to the principal’s office really as bad as going to the dentist? I think not.
If that is the case, then we principals have a lot of work to do to change our image. The question is how do we do that?
Obviously, we still are living under the notion that the principal is the person to whom kids get sent when they are naughty; that’s his or her only job. Back in the day, maybe that was true. There used to be true fear in the idea of getting sent to the principal’s office. It was that place way back in the corner of the main office where kids went in, but did not come out.
I still cringe when parents whom I am meeting for the first time tell their young children, right in front of me, “I don’t ever want you to go to HIS office!” And that is the child’s first time meeting me. No wonder we are in this predicament!
Upon reflecting back to my elementary school days, I hardly ever saw the principal in the classrooms, the halls, the lunchroom, or on the playground. (Unfortunately, I did see him in his office a few times, but that is a topic for a different blog post). Maybe if he had spent some time with the kids, they would have seen him as a regular guy who was personable, smiled, had a sense of humor, and cared about them.
So all you principals out there please join me in reshaping the public perception of the principalship. (Check out any TV show or movie that has a school principal as one of the main characters. How is he or she typically portrayed?) Get out there and show the world that principals are people, too!
We are currently in the middle of National Principals Month. This is the perfect time to set the record straight – visiting with the principal is way more fun than going to the dentist!
Remember – the Principal is your PAL!!
Enjoy the month, my friends!